[Byakuren]

Chinchen, on 20 February 2012 - 03:49 PM, said:

I can't seem to find one benefit out of bleeding out of genitalia.
Just to make a simple comparison, the only way a man can actually bleed out of their genitalia, in a natural way, is when they get priapism (which rarely happens, very rarely). And if such thing is not dealt within 24 hours, they have to be operated and drained to make it stop.

And yeah, anyone can die if you are being harmed enough in an specific area, it's because you die from shock pain and not from bleeding.

No shit
Females don't just 'randomly' bleed though, we bleed because it's part of the reproductive part of the body(Our bodies have to continuously bleed every month). Just like men constantly produce sperm. Thankfully however, women don't have periods their entire life either. When they get to the nice ripe old age of no longer being able to bare children they don't have to worry about blood smearing and staining their precious panties or worrying about getting pregnant.
I'm certainly glad about that, it's one of the things I admit I do prefer over a male's body. Males constantly need to be concerned about whether or not they need to use protection for whoever they're going to bang and fuck like women who are still able to become pregnant(depending on the situation given of course) because they can always make one pregnant unless they go to the doctor's and well the rest is history... Males still have to worry about that regardless how elderly they are where as females do not need to worry about such a responsibility when they are old bags.

@Asparagus: Nah it's aight, it's fine that you don't want to have a kid(You're smart too), so you shouldn't have to worry or complain about pregnancy since it's something you won't ever need to worry about experiencing as opposed to say, me, who is definitely having a kid in the future(Feminists would hate the shit out of me since I run by wanting to live a life style of staying at home cooking for the hubbie and raising the kids rather than being an independant person.).

[Rainbow Neko]

Natxo, on 20 February 2012 - 05:08 AM, said:

Whenever you run, do they jiggle or feel weird. Do you hide it or like showoff?

Spoiler

Big boobs are evil

Spoiler

They hurt like FFFF

And I'll hide my breasts kthx.Though sometimes they're just kinda... There.

And lol to all of you saying bras actually help you with your bewbies. For me, all they do is make it so my nipples don't show through my shirt. And the metal supporter thing always breaks out the fabric and
FFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFF

To the women:
I have a purse, but I rarely use it lol
What kinda stuff do you put in it? And what if your, I dunno, taking a trip or something. Do you put more or less stuff in your purse?

[asparagus]

Rainbow Neko, on 20 February 2012 - 04:28 PM, said:

Spoiler

Big boobs are evil

Spoiler

They hurt like FFFF

And I'll hide my breasts kthx.Though sometimes they're just kinda... There.

And lol to all of you saying bras actually help you with your bewbies. For me, all they do is make it so my nipples don't show through my shirt. And the metal supporter thing always breaks out the fabric and
FFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFF

To the women:
I have a purse, but I rarely use it lol
What kinda stuff do you put in it? And what if your, I dunno, taking a trip or something. Do you put more or less stuff in your purse?

I keep everything in my pockets. I only use a purse when I have to dress up (ugh), and then it's usually just phone+pencil+money+keys

My mom has a crazy purse though. She's got bandaids and mints and stuff. One of my friends keeps this pair of disposable panties in hers (idk she says she got them from japan)

[Gallows]

Rainbow Neko, on 20 February 2012 - 07:28 PM, said:

To the women:
I have a purse, but I rarely use it lol
What kinda stuff do you put in it? And what if your, I dunno, taking a trip or something. Do you put more or less stuff in your purse?

I'm such a horrible girl in this way. I barely ever carry a purse unless I'm going to be out with friends almost all day or am on my period. Basically only for situations where I actually need stuff that I can't just shove in my pocket. When I do carry a purse: Keys, wallet, phone, eyeliner, mascara, make-up remover wipes, concealer, tampons and pads, pen, pencil, and small notebook for lists.

[Bernkastel]

asparagus, on 19 February 2012 - 10:51 PM, said:

^On this note,

Guys (and girls),

What is the big deal about boobs?

Have you ever seen a pair of perky boobs? They're great. I don't do the whole massive boobs thing, but otherwise, boobs are serious business and are to be handled in an appropriate manner. *shot* I'm not being perverse, it's just speaking the truth here.

Chinchen, on 20 February 2012 - 02:27 AM, said:

It's related to biology. It's hard wired for males that big breasts = Big amounts of milk of the offsprings. Same deal goes with wide hips, they provide a good cradle for the fetus to develop in those 9 months.

Well, you can look at everything that way, but it makes everything too boring when you see everything in a logical, almost cynical, way.

[Pomelo]

Rainbow Neko, on 20 February 2012 - 07:28 PM, said:

To the women:
I have a purse, but I rarely use it lol
What kinda stuff do you put in it? And what if your, I dunno, taking a trip or something. Do you put more or less stuff in your purse?

Stuff I always have in my purse:

• Wallet
  
• Phone
  
• Zune
  
• Bus pass
  
• Pencil
  
• Make up (at the minimum, eye liner and chapstick/lipgloss)
  
• Gum
  
• One of those stain removers
  
• Tampons
  
• Tissues
  
• Scarf and gloves (in the winter)

Sometimes I;ll take a book or my notebooks for class or a game system or food or something.

[Byakuren]

Rayden, on 20 February 2012 - 09:58 PM, said:

I don't really get this though, as women don't choose to bleed. Men choose to have sex, so though they have to worry about it it's only by choice, and they prepare for it. Even then it's a mutual thing, it's on both partners to make sure there is protection, whether it be a male OR female condom, birth control, etc. But yea men can have sex and get a woman pregnant their whole life, but I doubt most men have sex their whole life. So I don't think it really matches up to women having to deal with periods whether they like it or not.

You don't really get it because you're thinking that I'm referring to all men's cases when I said that it depends. Some men are horribly sexually active, and I'm mostly going off of my own preferences for myself. I'm a horribly sexually active person, so for myself being a male would suck in later years as opposed to being a girl, unless I was a male that wanted to be on the recieving end of anal sex.

Not all men have to endure that kind of life style, but some really do and I personally would fall under this category I think.

I'd also like to note that some girls don't even experience their periods either for other reasons such as being extremely underweight and such, and some don't experience the painful side effects of it either, so having to 'endure' it doesn't necessarily fall under -all- female individuals either.

[SuperTart]

Rainbow Neko, on 20 February 2012 - 05:28 PM, said:

To the women:
I have a purse, but I rarely use it lol
What kinda stuff do you put in it? And what if your, I dunno, taking a trip or something. Do you put more or less stuff in your purse?

I have the weirdest shit in my purse. Let's see, school id, pencils as far as the eye could see, watercolors, colored pencils, highlighters, pokemon cards, loose change, perfume, bus passes, an asthma inhaler, migraine medicine, pads, folded up paper, erasers, pens of all sorts, a plastic rose, fuzzy socks for when I lose my gloves or get my feet wet and the water is stuck in my shoe and usually a bottle of water. (Don't ask how I fit all that shit in my small purse, I don't know either.)

To males:
If a girl is ugly, but has a fairly decent personality, would you still be willing to consider them or do you have to have the girls be fairly good looking. Also, do you prefer girls dress in cute skirts, tank tops, tight fitting, girly clothes, or would you rather have them just wear boyish, over-sized clothes?

[Sypher]

Byakuren, on 20 February 2012 - 11:20 PM, said:

You don't really get it because you're thinking that I'm referring to all men's cases when I said that it depends. Some men are horribly sexually active, and I'm mostly going off of my own preferences for myself. I'm a horribly sexually active person, so for myself being a male would suck in later years as opposed to being a girl, unless I was a male that wanted to be on the recieving end of anal sex.

This i can agree not every male thinks about sex 24/7 for example I myself am not a very sexually active person so i choose to not have sex at times.

Chinchen, on 20 February 2012 - 04:49 PM, said:

I can't seem to find one benefit out of bleeding out of genitalia.
Just to make a simple comparison, the only way a man can actually bleed out of their genitalia, in a natural way, is when they get priapism (which rarely happens, very rarely). And if such thing is not dealt within 24 hours, they have to be operated and drained to make it stop.

And yeah, anyone can die if you are being harmed enough in an specific area, it's because you die from shock pain and not from bleeding.

Well yeah both women and men bleed , When women bleed it means they can give birth to a new life if they so choose to with their partner, but if men bleed we may die from it so think of it as a benefit to bleed for a week and not die.

SuperTart, on 20 February 2012 - 11:32 PM, said:

To males:
If a girl is ugly, but has a fairly decent personality, would you still be willing to consider them or do you have to have the girls be fairly good looking. Also, do you prefer girls dress in cute skirts, tank tops, tight fitting, girly clothes, or would you rather have them just wear boyish, over-sized clothes?

Looks are last to me because when i'm old the outside won't matter anymore , what matters the most to me is the personality inside. Even women who think they have fairly decent personality to them may look like a dream girl to us guys since we all think differently.

I prefer girls in cute skirts and girly clothes but everyone's style is different right?

[Bernkastel]

SuperTart, on 20 February 2012 - 09:32 PM, said:

To males:
If a girl is ugly, but has a fairly decent personality, would you still be willing to consider them or do you have to have the girls be fairly good looking. Also, do you prefer girls dress in cute skirts, tank tops, tight fitting, girly clothes, or would you rather have them just wear boyish, over-sized clothes?

I won't deny it but unfortunately, I am a bit shallow, but this is because I feel I *have* to be attracted to my significant other in all aspects in order to make things work. That probably isn't coming out right and probably doesn't make as much sense as it should, but oh well. But personality is definitely a huge part of the attraction for me. I mean, they can be ABSOLUTELY GORGEOUS, but have a bleh personality that completely turns me off. They can be average looking though, that would not bug me at all.

But in my observation, it seems my girlfriends just keep getting cuter and more gorgeous. >_>

And yes, cute clothes = happy Bern. But it's really up to what they look good in. I don't mind gals who wear jeans and tshirts. A girl can *still* look great in jeans and tshirts. As long as they can make it work. But I prefer that they aren't baggy. Baggy clothes is ew, regardless of gender.

[Mima]

Chinchen, on 20 February 2012 - 05:49 PM, said:

I can't seem to find one benefit out of bleeding out of genitalia.

Well derp. That's because it's not supposed to be a 'benefit'. It's just part of reproduction, like everything else about genitals. All Jessu was saying was that periods aren't always some awful force of pain that completely ruins a lady's week. Personally, I may bleed a lot but I hardly ever get cramps, or feel bloated, or even get that tired (the 'classic symptoms'). Every once in awhile I get a mood swing, whoop-dee-damn-doo, but most of the time it's just there and I hardly even give a shit. So it's neither beneficial nor harmful. It just is.

Really periods are only inconvenient when you want to bone. Even then, though, there exist showers and partners with iron balls. So no biggie.

Rainbow Neko, on 20 February 2012 - 07:28 PM, said:

To the women:
I have a purse, but I rarely use it lol
What kinda stuff do you put in it? And what if your, I dunno, taking a trip or something. Do you put more or less stuff in your purse?

I am one of those people who likes to shove everything I could possibly need for the day into my purse. Currently my small purse contains:

• Wallet (money, cards, id, receipts, rune cheat-sheet (don't ask))
• Checkbook
• Pen for checkbook
• Sunglasses (which I always, without fail, neglect to put on anyway)
• Keys
• Hand sanitizer
• Pads
• My latest internet bill (because I just paid it - this can be filed away now)
• A tax return check that I keep forgetting to cash
• A list of work-related information for any applications I may fill out
• A bracelet and necklace that I shoved in here when I got sick of wearing them one time and they still haven't yet found their way back upstairs where they belong
• A box-cutter
• A single marble
• A laptop cleaning-cloth
• My stun gun

......Yeah I need to clean this out again.

[Chinchen]

Byakuren, on 20 February 2012 - 08:22 PM, said:

Females don't just 'randomly' bleed though, we bleed because it's part of the reproductive part of the body(Our bodies have to continuously bleed every month). Just like men constantly produce sperm. Thankfully however, women don't have periods their entire life either. When they get to the nice ripe old age of no longer being able to bare children they don't have to worry about blood smearing and staining their precious panties or worrying about getting pregnant.
I'm certainly glad about that, it's one of the things I admit I do prefer over a male's body. Males constantly need to be concerned about whether or not they need to use protection for whoever they're going to bang and fuck like women who are still able to become pregnant(depending on the situation given of course) because they can always make one pregnant unless they go to the doctor's and well the rest is history... Males still have to worry about that regardless how elderly they are where as females do not need to worry about such a responsibility when they are old bags.

Females do randomly bleed, once per month, and depending the body type it would be regular or not.
Also, you can't really compare sperm production, that happens almost every god damn hour and doesn't come out when you don't need it, and a bleeding. I am well versed in that part, which I omitted cause it's rather obvious if your paid attention on early highschool years, but my concern is not the bleed alone, but what happens after the bleed. When a man releases sperm it's plesure, when a woman bleeds, it spawns pain, threads of constant whinning and bithching about anything, and emotional lashing towards the nearest object/person. Happens inside this very community as proof, and I don't see a thread about how wonderful life is after a man's act.

Last, but not least, men do worry about whether they need to use protection or not due to law. If the law wasn't as biased towards women as it was, there wouldn't be much concern about it, since child wellfare is possibly one of the biggest traps ever layed in a man's path. Hopefully someone will end up changing it up for special cases.

Bernkastel, on 20 February 2012 - 11:49 PM, said:

Well, you can look at everything that way, but it makes everything too boring when you see everything in a logical, almost cynical, way.

Because it explains the whole thing instead of going around in circles over the same thing all the time? There might have been an evolution, but the base remains untouched.

Sypher, on 21 February 2012 - 02:49 AM, said:

Well yeah both women and men bleed , When women bleed it means they can give birth to a new life if they so choose to with their partner, but if men bleed we may die from it so think of it as a benefit to bleed for a week and not die.

Wait, we bleed once per month in a natural cycle? Shit, I think genetics screwed up somewhere with that.

Mima, on 21 February 2012 - 03:46 AM, said:

Well derp. That's because it's not supposed to be a 'benefit'. It's just part of reproduction, like everything else about genitals.

In women? The bleeding is a benefit to avoid an internal infection due to having dead tissue inside the body. In men? No benefit what so ever.
And if I include the emotional inestability when said period happens, it just outweights the entire thing.

[SuperTart]

@Rayden I mostly agree with you, except for the part about baggy clothes. Baggy clothes doesn't necessarily mean you're a lesbian, it's just what you're comfortable wearing. From what I've seen, lesbians don't generally dress that differently from other girls, so I don't see it fair to stereotype them. Not to mention, some girls are used to wearing those sort of clothes because that's the way they were raised. I myself always wear jeans, a random t-shirt, and a hoodie, not because I'm trying to make a statement saying "Oh, hey! Look at me! I'm so totes asexual because I don't think impressing people is important," I dress that way because I only grew up with only men and found that I'd rather have clothes I could move in easier for when I want to do something like go hiking or climb in trees as opposed to wearing shorts, tank tops, and heels.
Also, wearing tight clothing doesn't make you any more heterosexual than baggy clothing does, it's just a way of fashion.

Orz, sorry if I came across as rude, it just offends me when others stereotype based off clothing. Of course, even the worst dressed girls ever, would perhaps for once in their life, wear something cute, it's a girl's nature to want to look good. Maybe that's just how I see it, since I used to dress adorably as well before I realized it was harder to move around. (Up until the middle of 7th grade, I always wore frilly dresses, skirts, mini jackets, had my hair in fancy styles, or wore it in long pigtails, flowers in my hair along with wearing long socks and dress shoes, etc. etc.)

Point is, as long as someone's comfortable in their clothes, should it really matter?