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guy help (or female~) cause i know your all experts XP

#1 User is offline   TheUnadorableJiao Icon

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Posted 04 December 2011 - 12:31 AM

hey y'all
i'm not sure if there is a thread about this already but i thought i would try ^^
recently i have found myself in a small guy dilemma and i just wondered if you guys would have any advice for me or anyone else who wishes to share their guy/girl situation in this thread ^^

so go for it ^^

my di-llama:
okay recently i've made new friends at collage and one of these friends just happened to know a guy i kind of fancied from my old school (we didn't talk much cause we we're in different classes and had different groups of friends but when we did talk we had alot in common) anywho, the day after she had discovered this she had asked him about me and, i quote, he referred to me as "the girl with big boobs"=.= (i get it alot so it's not that insulting i just have...defineing features) so then a couple days after i was home after drinking at a party round my friends and whilst under the magical influence of alcohol, i decided to question him over fb message about the big boob comment =///3///=;;; yes when i woke up i regretted it but that evening he messaged me back and since we have chatted abit, i know he isn't the cutest of guys but it really is his personality i like more and more, but now he hasn't messaged me back and i'm begining to think i'm over thinking it? am i? do i over think things? T^T
should i attempt to message him back should i even try to arrange a day to meet him?
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View PostMini, on 06 December 2011 - 01:20 PM, said:

if anything fails, well, at least you still have big boobs <3

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Posted 04 December 2011 - 12:38 AM

If you still fancy him, I'd say go for it.

Just ask him out.

Sure his comment may have been rude, but guys do this all the time.

What do you have to lose?

More info on this guy would help.
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Posted 04 December 2011 - 01:17 AM

i would ask him out but i'm really not the type to do that i haz no ballz TwT

but the guy

in my opinion i think he's really derpy cute >///w///< his hair is always so fluffeh i just wanna ruffle it and when we chat i feel comfortable and it's that part i like most about him, but the reason i might feel comfortable about talking to him could be that he only sees me in a friendly manner V.V
he kind of stuck me in a pegasister zone
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if anything fails, well, at least you still have big boobs <3

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Posted 04 December 2011 - 03:52 AM

Well I would say be cautious. If you keep pestering it will look desperate or need of attention. I woukd message him and if he doesnt reply then take another action. Think about it first if this is a can of worms you really want to open. If you do then ask him if he is mad at you. It would not hurt to be honest. If you have feelings for him and you want to advance then do so but be carefull though.
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Posted 04 December 2011 - 08:52 AM

^this^
is what i've been doing T^T
i'm only ranting on here about it cause it's the internet nobody really cares so i'm more likely to get flat out answers
i guess i'm just wondering now what my next "move" should be :/
i think i'll wait another day to reply and see where it goes TwTb thanks bonaventure and okamifang
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if anything fails, well, at least you still have big boobs <3

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Posted 04 December 2011 - 10:01 AM

Send him a message and tell us the results! We can plan after that depending on how that goes. =)
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Posted 04 December 2011 - 10:19 AM

Ruffle his hair! Guys really like that! Even if they say they don't.
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Posted 04 December 2011 - 10:26 AM

Bon does make a valid point. I like my haor ruffled from time to time. :l
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Posted 05 December 2011 - 12:37 AM

You're overthinking. If he was head over heels for you you'd know. Take your time, many guys can lead a busy college life. Try to give him space.

I do want to say that the fact he isn't chasing you is a good thing. If he isn't after your "big boobs" it means he's trying to get to know you for you, and not for your physical aspects.

That's like finding a shiny pokemon in college, take advantage. And being friends before lovers doesn't only apply to girls. Try taking interest in him and being someone he can look forward to talking to, someone he loves to share with. It only means more one on one time.

Hope for the best, prepare for the worst. Falling for someone sucks because it sucks balls when it doesn't work out. But I wish you good luck! Ruffle his hair.

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Posted 06 December 2011 - 01:14 PM

If he noticed your boobs instead of your cuteness or any psychological features you might have, it's because he is somehow sexually interested on you, he may not be aware of that yet, but at least you're not friendzoned, which is a good start. He's also not after sex only, else he'd be acting (because he find your boobs attractive, or at least, big). Another good thing
Don't send him tones of messages, you will look desperate and guys tend to run away from this kind of attitude. Just wait for the reply and if he doesn't reply then wait till you can casually meet outside facebook/twitter/etc and make see what happens.

And if anything fails, well, at least you still have big boobs <3
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Posted 06 December 2011 - 11:37 PM

View PostMini, on 06 December 2011 - 08:20 AM, said:

And if anything fails, well, at least you still have big boobs <3


This is probably one of the best lines of advice I've ever read in these forums. *Thumbs up*

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Posted 08 December 2011 - 03:23 AM

Hm. Well, if you continuously pester him it won't come out good.

But I think that if you were to forget about the big boobs comment, you could try talking to him more, maybe?
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Posted 11 December 2011 - 04:41 AM

lol best line ever mini thats going in mah siggy XD
but yea i have messenged him once since but all convo is just dying between us T^T
i'm going to leave it to fate and what not now

anywho i made this thread so other people could ask for advice ect~ so don't feel shy folks i've just made myslef sound like a clingy needy kid on here with big boobers TwT~
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if anything fails, well, at least you still have big boobs <3

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Posted 11 December 2011 - 08:21 AM

In my opinion you need to learn how to fall out of love properly before you learn how to fall in love the right way.

I hope fate treats you well then~

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Posted 11 December 2011 - 11:48 PM

I wish you the best, darling~
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