[Sypher]

Muyo, on 08 January 2012 - 03:43 PM, said:

Oh wow. I'm glad there are people around who think the same way I do orz; I don't think there's anything wrong with being a virgin. Heck, I'm almost 20 and still a virgin. Why? Because I'm choosing to wait until marriage. I want to save it for someone I really, really care about. I've had people ask me how I could still be a virgin at 19 :/ It's so stupid that people think you're ugly/a loser/stuck-up if you're a virgin.

If it was me i'd give a big smile and a one finger salute :3

[Nova]

Well, here's an answer I've always thought: "What's Wrong with Being a Virgin? Nothing if it doesn't bother you."

[Misaokawaii]

ok ok ok i think i solved this problem

took me awhile but yea
I love being a succubus >:3

[AMVGFan]

Theres nothing wrong really its just how you interpret it on how you value other peoples opinion really. Dont be pressured into loseing your virginity just because people boast they arnt virgins which 3 out of 5 times were pressured into it. (or just sex addicts) The only difference is that your commited to haveing only 1 special person in your life while others like me constantly fall in and out of love and are often left wandering in a sea of loneliness. Well thats how I view it but Im still only 20 so I have much more time to grow up but still though I agree sex is better than your hand or toys, however it comes at the risk of haveing kids and diseases so unless your prepared for it do not rush in head on.

[Howard]

Depends. I find it abit weird if somone is 40 years old and still a virgin.

[Kuriko ♥]

Byakuren, on 08 January 2012 - 02:11 PM, said:

(Example; the ridiculous skinny models media shoves in everyone's faces making them think that's 'healthy', when it really is not.)

To me, the ridiculously skinny models whom you can see their ribs sticking out is stupid and unhealthy. :C

I mean I'm slim but jeez, I'd never want to be that made. =__='

The Media sucks and I just ignore it. Also a reason why I barely watch the TV 'cause all I see is "OMG EAT HEALTHY" and depressing stuff about the world's economy.

[Kartoffel-Chan]

I think virginity is a weird thing for humans, like a lot of cultures want women to be pure and what not, but they want their men to be dashing lady killers.


Maybe it goes all the way back to in the beginning where those who didn't mate didn't pass on their bloodlines? Only now it's gotten to the point where idjits call you a loser if you don't spread your legs all of the time. Also, I think a lot of people view losing your virginity as a way of suddenly becoming a grownup, or being a mature human.

[PrimaLove]

I never felt like a loser being a virgin. It's a personal choice. I applaud those who remain abstinent and don't get pregnant like some young teenage idiots and I know some >>. Yes, in some cultures, losing your virginity is "slutty" and "dirty". In my opinion, it is what it is. Just be sure you stay responsible and don't let losing your virginity turn into a big regret. If you're being pressured by friends or something, stop talking to them. They're not worth your time. However, if that pressure is coming from something other than friends (yourself wanting to lose it to feel "mature"), then you'd better think long and hard about it. Losing your virginity doesn't make you an adult. Paying taxes does. If you wanna be an adult, go do your parents' taxes. Stuff like losing your virginity just makes you....not a virgin. Plain and simple.

[Pipcard]

http://www.youtube.c...h?v=kn2-d5a3r94

Notice the snide comments about his supposed virginity and supposed lack of a girlfriend ("How's your girlfriend?", implying he doesn't have one)
They are the comments saying something to the effect of "he is a no-life loser who needs to get a girlfriend/get laid."

What's wrong with that?

[Confetti]

Not going to lie, I've barely read any of the posts in this thread. I think I read half of the first page before I got pissed off.

Being a virgin does not make you uncool. And the only people who say that are really just jerks who aren't comfortable enough in their own sexual lives. I mean sure, I've asked a few people why they haven't just bit the bullet and gotten it over with. But if they have their reasons, so be it. I'm not going to try to convince them that sex is the most amazing thing ever. Because it's not. Honestly, loosing my virginity crushed my confidence because the guy I lost it too masturbated way too much and couldn't cum. And it felt horrible. I still don't have confidence in my sexual ability.
But I'm getting sidetracked. I think. Hell that might be totally on topic. But it makes me mad that people buy into these stupid labels such as "all virgins are losers or nerds" or "women who have sex are skanks/whores." However, even then there are extremes of everything. You really are a whore if you have sex every night or less with multiple people. Which, from personal experience, sounds uncomfortable and unlikely. And you really are a loser if you're 40, live in your mom's basement while refusing to go outside and instead sit on the computer all day and breathe from your mouth. And even celibacy can be taken to the extreme. If I ever dated a man that told me I couldn't kiss him until we were married I'd bitch slap him and dump his ass. I mean, I can understand sex. But I do like to have some form of an intimate connection with the guys I date. And if I can't even kiss him, I know I can't do it and he's a little to extreme in his super virginity.
However, I will say that I do think that couples should have sex before they marry. Sex is one of those things that can make or break a relationship. I don't want to get married to a guy without having sex with him then find out on our honeymoon that he's completely obsessed with feet and cannot get off without touching mine. Especially since I hate having my feet touched.

Tl;dr ~ Stereotypes suck, just be yourselves shitdicks.

[Ninja Neru]

>Met a Virgin once< Doesn't want to meet one again... DX

[Snapplemonkey]

Did anyone read my post at all... you know, the one that explains why the virginity shunning started? It has nothing to do with the media, the media only propagates what the majority feels, that's what it does it caters to the majority. It doesn't even matter in the long run, because the people who are smart enough (the ones with common sense) realize that media isn't always right.

[Misaokawaii]

Snapplemonkey, on 11 January 2012 - 10:40 AM, said:

Did anyone read my post at all... you know, the one that explains why the virginity shunning started? It has nothing to do with the media, the media only propagates what the majority feels, that's what it does it caters to the majority. It doesn't even matter in the long run, because the people who are smart enough (the ones with common sense) realize that media isn't always right.

I did ._.

[♪]

Snapplemonkey, on 11 January 2012 - 06:40 PM, said:

Did anyone read my post at all... you know, the one that explains why the virginity shunning started? It has nothing to do with the media, the media only propagates what the majority feels, that's what it does it caters to the majority. It doesn't even matter in the long run, because the people who are smart enough (the ones with common sense) realize that media isn't always right.

If people are smart enough, they surely would have read your post ( ✧*≖‿≖*)

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[Pomelo]

idk, I don't really get the stigma either. I think everyone is different and so obviously not everyone will or should have sex at a certain time.

As for me, sure I'd like to do it if the opportunity properly presents itself. I'm not the type of person who will throw herself on a random boy just to lose it (though like I said, different people do thing different etc etc.). Right now I'm still a virgin, not because I'm waiting for marriage or something, but I'd probably wait until I'm in a stable relationship. Too bad that requires leaving my room. I'm not really in a rush to lose it either, when it happens it'll happen.

I just don't really see the big deal with virginity. It's a piece of skin in my vagina, big deal. I've thought about taking it myself more than once.